Mastering Relationships Part 1
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David Hanscom closeAuthor: David Hanscom
Name: David Hanscom
Email: davidhanscom@me.com
Site: http://davidhanscom.com
About: You Can have everything you want in life if you just help other people get what they want ~ Zig Ziglar
David's career began with the Armed Forces Radio and Television Services while living in Bermuda. His background includes work in radio, television, concert and event production. In 1998 David moved to Jacksonville, FL and after reading "The Mobile DJ Handbook," by Stacy Zemon, he started Y? Entertainment, Inc. David is also a career, event and marketing consultant to businesses and individuals nationwide.
He was the first elected President of the National Association of Mobile Entertainers in 2007 and is the current President of the North Florida Professional DJ Association. David has been a contributing writer to National Entertainer and Mobile Beat magazines.
David is also very passionate about Community Service. In conjunction with the NFL and the Jacksonville Jaguars football team, David hosts a school program (about 50 shows per year) with the team mascot that focuses on teaching children about goal setting, achievement, and believing in themselves even when times are tough.
David believes that his life really started moving in the right direction when he discovered the power of aligning himself with experienced mentors -- people who had achieved success in their lives and were willing to teach him how to properly create a plan and market himself and his business in a successful manner.
It is now David's mission to do the same thing for others. His experiences have motivated him to become a mentor to those who are serious about achieving their goals to attain success.
"I look forward to helping you realize, achieve and exceed your life's goals." - David HanscomSee Authors Posts (10) · December 4, 2011
In one of my past articles 10 Things you should Know and Do before you are 40 I briefly touched on the importance of Creating Solid Relationships. I would not like to take that a step further and focus on Mastering Relationships. This will be Key Tips in bullet point fashion to help you start to Master Relationships. Take a moment and reflect on the meaning of each point and how it applies to you. Measure your success with relationships and allow the Key Tips to help you grow where necessary.
- How can I give more value to the relationships in my life?
- The quality of life is based on the balance of relationships.
- All relationships start with “me”. I must love “me” before other can.
- How do I value my relationships with others?
- I decide how people treat me. Do they walk all over me or treat me with respect?
- I must love myself for who I am and visualize myself in my perfect state.
- Treat yourself in a perfect way and others will too.
- Take yourself seriously and others will too.
- Keep in mind that often what you don’t like in someone else may also be what you don’t like in yourself.
- Vibrate on a higher plane. To notice someone’s negatives, you have to be vibrating negatively yourself.
- Strive to find something good in everyone.
- Hold onto your beliefs as to inspire and empower others to do the same.
- Remember that everyone is doing the best they can with what they have been given in life.
- Show others how to be in a good relationship with you by being the example you would like them to be.
- You can attract the people you need to help you achieve your dreams by being the person you want to be.
- Connect with others on a personal level and then bring them up with your excitement. also, allow them the bring you up with their’s when necessary.
- See yourself more exciting, you will become more exciting and attract others
- Be sure that what you communicate is being carried out by your actions.
- Communicate to the RIGHT people.
This is a short but powerful checklist to help Master Relationships. Stay tuned for Part 2 as we will build upon this initial checklist to help you Master your relationship with others.
Written by David Hanscom closeAuthor: David Hanscom
Name: David Hanscom
Email: davidhanscom@me.com
Site: http://davidhanscom.com
About: You Can have everything you want in life if you just help other people get what they want ~ Zig Ziglar
David's career began with the Armed Forces Radio and Television Services while living in Bermuda. His background includes work in radio, television, concert and event production. In 1998 David moved to Jacksonville, FL and after reading "The Mobile DJ Handbook," by Stacy Zemon, he started Y? Entertainment, Inc. David is also a career, event and marketing consultant to businesses and individuals nationwide.
He was the first elected President of the National Association of Mobile Entertainers in 2007 and is the current President of the North Florida Professional DJ Association. David has been a contributing writer to National Entertainer and Mobile Beat magazines.
David is also very passionate about Community Service. In conjunction with the NFL and the Jacksonville Jaguars football team, David hosts a school program (about 50 shows per year) with the team mascot that focuses on teaching children about goal setting, achievement, and believing in themselves even when times are tough.
David believes that his life really started moving in the right direction when he discovered the power of aligning himself with experienced mentors -- people who had achieved success in their lives and were willing to teach him how to properly create a plan and market himself and his business in a successful manner.
It is now David's mission to do the same thing for others. His experiences have motivated him to become a mentor to those who are serious about achieving their goals to attain success.
"I look forward to helping you realize, achieve and exceed your life's goals." - David HanscomSee Authors Posts (10) · Filed Under Business College
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